My name is Nate Phelps.
I am one of the estranged children of Pastor Fred Phelps of the Westboro
Baptist Church. I am assuming that you know about my father
and his church if you have found your way to this site.
Since my father began his latest assault on some segment of
the world in 1991, I have been approached from time to time, and asked to
provide my perspective on this story. I
have obliged, and a few more people are made aware of the dark, or should I say
darker, side of my father.
In October of 2008 a young man named Trevor Melanson climbed
into my cab in Cranbrook, British
Columbia. As I
drove him to the airport he talked about his activities as a journalism student
at the University of British
Columbia in Vancouver. Suddenly he was explaining to me about a
program on the BBC about a small, radical church in Topeka,
Kansas.
The look of stunned confusion on his face, when I told him that was my
family, will stay with me for a long time.
That chance meeting turned into an award winning article on the UBC
newspaper website called “Running From Hell”.
That article can now be found at: http://thetyee.ca/Life/2009/10/07/PreacherPhelps/
Within a month I received an offer to come tell me story to
a live audience at the American Atheist Convention in Atlanta,
Georgia. Following that event I was urged to get my
speech on line so more people could be exposed to this story.
We opened this site in June of 2009 and in early December
hit the milestone of 10,000 unique visitors.
I can’t say what tomorrow will bring, but I continue to work
on finding a publisher for the book I am writing, and more offers are coming in
for me to tell my story. For now I am
blogging from time to time and I will continue to make myself available to
inform the world about who my father really is and offer hope and some small
amount of healing for the thousands of people out there who have suffered
similarly from religious extremism.
Thank you for coming.
Please feel free to write to me if you have any questions or comments.
For those of you who suffer or who have suffered the effects of being raised in a fundamentalist environment, please join myself and Brother Richard at our Support group, "Life After Christian Fundamentalism"
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